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As people grow older, it becomes difficult to talk about their feelings. When they were young, this matter was very easy. If they felt bad, they would tell everyone, cry, get angry. If someone insulted them, they would tell them directly to their faces. But as they grew older, this simple thing became the most difficult. Now, even if they feel bad, they cannot tell anyone openly.
Hiding their feelings has become a natural thing. The biggest reason is that as people grow older, they become more calculating. It seems that if they say it, then what will they think, what will they say, whether they will say something bad, they keep quiet. Again, many times they feel that no one will understand them. On the contrary, when they talk about being upset, many people minimize it. So the desire to speak one's mind decreases. It seems like what's the point, no one will listen properly.
Another reason is responsibility. There was no pressure, no tension in childhood. But after growing up, you have to think about so many things that you don't have time to talk about your feelings. All the time, work, responsibilities, family, thousands of thoughts around you. Talking about your mind becomes a luxury. It seems like there is no time, no opportunity. Again, those who had people to talk to gradually move away. Distance is created even with childhood friends. Then there is no place to talk about your mind.
Many times, if you talk about your feelings, people will think you are weak. This thought also works inside. Growing up, everyone teaches you to be strong, to hide your feelings, to always control yourself. From this thought, people don't want to talk about their inner words. It seems like if you talk, everyone will think you are weak, they will make you an easy target. So even if you are upset, you learn to keep quiet.
It also happens that when you grow up, everyone becomes so busy with their own problems that if you tell someone about your feelings, they might get annoyed. Many people think that talking about themselves might put pressure on others. This is also why people keep quiet. It seems that it is better to keep your troubles to yourself and spend the day. After all, one of the realities of growing up is that everyone has to adapt.
If you always speak your mind, many relationships break. Problems arise in many places. So people close their mouths over time. They do not express their feelings easily. It seems that you have to accept everything. If you talk about your feelings, there will be trouble. So you have to smile even if you are upset, and you have to act calm even if your eyes are wet. This is why it seems that the older a person gets, the more difficult it is to talk about your feelings. Even if you feel like it, you don't say it. Even if it hurts, you don't say it. You have to keep everything inside.
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