Are you an ass guy? Well, you’re definitely not alone! However, like any other sexual activity, grabbing a girl’s ass has its rules.

 

This article explains when is it appropriate to touch a woman’s second most intimate body part. You’ll learn that your behavior needs to change based on how long you’ve known the lady, and the level of trust that you’ve established with her.

 

Are you ready to discover all the secrets of the female butt?

 

Grabbing a Girl’s Ass when You Just Met

At this stage, it’s not always appropriate to touch a girl’s butt, let alone grabbing and squeezing it. Also, you should make sure that you have the woman’s consent before attempting such a risky move. In some states, groping a woman without her consent is illegal, and might get you in serious trouble!

 

However, there are actually some cases where touching a girl right away is a good option. Let’s analyze the two different possible situations: You’ve already flirted with her online, or you just talked to her for the first time.

 

If you have never flirted with her online, build some rapport first

Two people building rapport with each otherMeeting a girl at a bar or club for the first time? Instead of worrying about how to touch her ass, focus on building a good rapport with her first. To achieve this goal, the dating expert Daniel Adebayo suggests that you ask her “What’s something that you really enjoy?”

 

Adebayo calls this “the golden question” because it allows a woman to open up to you, making the conversation engaging and interesting. Additionally, the seduction coach Tony Depp says that you should always memorize a woman’s name during your first few interactions with her.

 

“The average person is more interested in their own name than in all the other names in the world put together,” says Depp. Try to repeat her name as soon as she tells it to you for the first time, so your brain will memorize it. This will show your potential date that you really care about her.

 

After building enough rapport and trust, start touching her in a non-sexual way. This will help her to get accustomed to your touch, allowing you to progress gradually towards the sexiest spots of her body.

 

When you touch her for the first time, make your gesture look as casual as possible. For example, you could nonchalantly put a hand over her shoulder. Another great way to break the touch barrier is complimenting her on a piece of jewelry she’s wearing, then touching it in a casual way.

 

From this point onwards, sexier things will follow as a natural step. When you notice that she’s comfortable with you touching her hands, arms and shoulders, you can cautiously progress towards a flirty touch. However, remember to do it slowly and gradually.